John Gray ​

John Gray is an American relationship counselor, lecturer and author. He is best known for his book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, and has written many follow-up books. His books have sold millions of copies worldwide, translated into dozens of languages and are often used as references in relationship counseling.

Quick Facts ​

• Best known for the advice book "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus".
• His book has sold more than 50 million copies worldwide.
• Has appeared on numerous television and radio programs, including Oprah and The Today Show.
• Is a certified family therapist.
• Worked as a high school teacher and counselor before becoming a writer.

Background ​

Gray was born in 1951 in Houston, Texas. He grew up with five brothers and attended St. Mary's Catholic School, graduating high school in 1969. He later attended the University of St. Thomas in Houston, majoring in meditation and Chinese language. Gray pursued a bachelor's and master's degree in Eastern Philosophy before moving to California in 1979. He began his career in psychological counseling with a focus on communication and relationships. In 1992, Gray published the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus which went on to become a long term best seller and formed the basis for his Mars/Venus workshops and seminars. He has written numerous other self-help books and continues to conduct personal growth seminars around the world.

Writing Style and Impact ​

Gray's books feature practical guidance and advice, and his writing style is straightforward and direct. His work focuses primarily on gender differences and the importance of understanding those differences for successful relationships. His most famous book, "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus," has been acclaimed for helping many men and women understand and resolve their relationship issues, making him one of the most well-known figures in relationship counselling.

Notable Works ​

• Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (1992)
• Mars and Venus on a Date (1997)
• Mars and Venus Starting Over (2002)
• Why Mars and Venus Collide (2008)